Thomas Mildenhall and Joan Stroud

Thomas Mildenhall and Joan Stroud were married in August 1649 in the Anglican parish church in Aldbourne, Wiltshire.1 He was the son of Thomas and Ann of Ramsbury; she was the daughter of Anthony and Margery of Baydon.2 The parishes of Ramsbury, Aldbourne, Baydon and Chilton Foliatt nestle together in the boundary between eastern Wiltshire and neighboring Berkshire. Ramsbury parish extends from the valley of the Kennet up to the steep hills of the Marlborough Downs. Within it lie the villages relevant to the Mildenhalls: Ramsbury, Aldbourne, Mildenhall, Marridge Hill, and Baydon, where Joan’s family lived.3

Thomas’ family lived for generations on Marridge Hill, high on the Downs.4 “The ancestors of Thomas Mildenhall of Marridge Hill (many also named Thomas) were yeoman farmers, that is, persons who held their land freehold from the Manorial lord. … In April of 1567 Lord Pembroke commanded a survey of all his estates including the Manor of Ramsbury, providing a rare record of the names of villagers and where they lived. The name “Myldenhall” appears in the 1567 Pembroke survey.”5 Aldbourne was the nearest village to Marridge Hill, and a weekly market was held there.

After Thomas and Joan were married, they settled on Marridge Hill and started their family.6 In the 1650s their lives changed as they became members of the Society of Friends. The Quaker movement spread early into their part of Wilshire, as the nearby village of Marlborough lay on the main road from London to Bristol. The closest Monthly Meeting to Marridge Hill was in Lambourn Woodland, just across the Berkshire border, and that is where the births of their five youngest children are recorded.7 George Fox, a founder of the Quaker movement, held a meeting in 1673 at Lambourne Woods. The MiIldenhalls were probably there.8

In 1681 William Penn opened up his colony of Pennsylvania for settlement, advertising the fertility of the land, ample natural resources, and freedom of religion.9 Three children of Thomas and Joan decided to go, sailing within a year or two, and two others followed in 1685. The three who sailed earlier were John, Mary and Benjamin. They probably traveled in one of the 23 ships that sailed in 1682, since John ”Mynall” was recorded as a juror in Chester County Court in April 1683. The three settled in Concord Township, where they bought land, using money inherited from their father.

Their father Thomas died in 1682 and left a will.10 He described himself as a yeoman of Maridge, and left the land to his oldest son Thomas. He left a cottage and gardens and five acres of land in Maridge to his son John, plus another tract at “great Rachlett coppice”, “towards his better preferment in marriage and for his marriage portion”. John was to pay £40 to his brother Benjamin. A tract of 30 acres in Chilton Folliott was left to Stephen, another son. The daughters Mary, Margery and Joan got cash legacies. Mary got £4, while the others got a token amount, as they were already married and had presumably receive a portion at the time.11 Joan was the executor and her brother Benjamin Stoud was an overseer of the estate.

In 1685, more of the siblings immigrated. Margery had married Thomas Martin in 1675 under the care of Reading and Marlboro Monthly Meeting.12 Thomas Martin had been imprisoned for practicing his Quaker beliefs. On April 1, 1682 he was arrested by the tithingman of Great Bedwyn and brought before Justice Hungerford, who sent him to prison. At the next Sessions, Martin was indicted for “three weeks absence from the National Worship”. He refused to post bail and was recommitted to prison.”13 At some point he was released and in December 1685 the Martins arrived in Philadelphia on the Unicorn, sailing out of Bristol. Margary’s younger brother Moses sailed with them and bought land in Pennsylvania, but did not stay. He went back to England in 1687, selling his Pennsylvania land to his brothers and sister.

The others stayed in Pennsylvania, prospered and had large families.

Children of Thomas and Joan:14

Margery, b. Dec 1655, d. 1742, m. 1675 Thomas Martin.15 They immigrated in 1685 on the Unicorn with their children and settled in Concord on 100 acres bought from her brother John.16 At some point they moved to Middletown Township, and were taxed there in 1693. Thomas and Margery later turned away from the Quaker society and were baptized in 1697 in Ridley Creek, some of the earliest known Baptists in the colony.17 He died in 1714. Children: Mary, Sarah, Hannah, Rachel, George, Moses, Elinor, Margery.18

Joan, b. ab. 1657, married Dr. John Spier in 1681 at Lambourne Woods Meeting. In their marriage record he was described as a “medicus of chirugus alias physitian” and was the son of John, an apothecary.19 John and Joan stayed in England, where he died in 1703; she died before 1731. Children: Joan, Hannah, James.

Thomas, b. ab. 1657, d. 1729 in Marridge, married a woman named Israel, left children Thomas, Nicholas, Stephen, Joan, Isabel, Israel20. He did not become a Quaker.21

John, b. 8th month 1659, immigrated probably in late 1682. He married in 1685 at Darby Meeting Elizabeth Maris, daughter of George and Alice.22 John bought 300 acres in Concord in 1683, and later bought more land from John Harding and Philip Roman, whom he knew from Wiltshire, since they lived nearby.23 He was active in the meeting in Concord, which was often held at his house. In 1697 for 5 shillings he donated land for the meetinghouse and burying ground for the Meeting. He died in 1743 and did not leave a will. Elizabeth died long before him, in 1691. Children: George, John, Aaron.

Benjamin, b. 2nd month 1662, immigrated probably in late 1682, married in 1689 Ann Pennell, daughter of Robert and Hannah. He was a wheelwright, and later a wealthy land-owner, with eventual holdings of over 1500 acres. On the tax records he was usually the second-wealthiest man in Concord township after his brother-in-law Nathaniel Newlin.24 Benjamin was active in Concord Meeting, where he became an elder, and served as delegate to Quarterly and Yearly meetings. He served one term in the Provincial Assembly but was not active there.25 He wrote his will in 1736, and died in 1739. The inventory of his estate yielded a value of £760. Thomas Chalkley, the Quaker traveling minister, attended Benjamin’s funeral and wrote that “This Friend was a worthy elder and a serviceable man in our Society, and one of the early settlers in Pennsylvania; a man given to hospitality, and a good example to his family.”26  Ann also wrote a will, proved in 1749. Children: Ann, Benjamin, Joseph, Moses, Hannah, Samuel, Rebecca, Ann, Nathan, Robert. The daughter Ann married the celebrated botanist John Bartram.

Stephen, b. 6th month 1664, became a Quaker, married a woman named Mary, stayed in Wiltshire where he died in 1721.27

Moses, b. 9th month 1666, d. 1738. Moses immigrated in 1685 on the Unicorn with his sister Margery and her husband Thomas. He had bought rights to 500 acres before leaving England. But by 7th month 1687 he was back in England. He planned to buy 250 acres from the Hitchcock family of Marlborough, but changed his mind, as “his mother would not let him goe back, and besides he sedd he should not give soe much for it”.28 In 1688 Moses sold his 500 acres to his brothers and sisters in Pennsylvania and settled on Marridge Hill where he married in 1690 Elizabeth Bacon, daughter of John.29 She died in 1737; he died the next year, leaving a will. Children: John, Thomas, Stephen, Mary, Sarah, Joseph, Elizabeth, Hannah, Moses.

Mary, d. 1728, m. 1685 Nathaniel Newlin, son of Nicholas and Elizabeth, at Concord Meeting.30 They became the wealthiest family in Concord township, owning much land, a grist mill, and a dry goods store. Nathaniel served in the Provincial Assembly, as a Justice, and was a Commissioner of Property. Mary died in late 1728, and Nathaniel married again, to Mary Fincher. They were only married for a few months before his death in early 1729. Surprisingly, for such a wealthy man, he left no will. His inventory lists pages of personal property and inventory from the dry goods store: surgical instruments, books on law and divinity and medicine, luxury items like ivory-handled knives and forks, many yards of varied fabric types, thread, buttons, nails, glass bottles, nutmeg, gallons of molasses, and over 6000 acres of land.31 Children of Mary and Nathaniel: Jemima, Elizabeth, Nicholas, Nathaniel, John, Keziah, and Mary.

Aaron, b. 7th month 1669, died young

  1. Thomas’ family name comes in many variations. The family took its name from the village of Mildenhall, a few miles away from Aldbourne, pronounced as “Minall” by the inhabitants. Sometimes the family name is written as Minall, sometimes as Mildenhall. The American branch called themselves Mendenhall. (Ken Mendenhall, “From Marridge Hill to Concord Township”, Mendenhall Matters Newsletter, 2010, vol. 17(3), online at mendenhall.org)
    In the marriage record his name is Thomas “Minehall”. (Gary Allen Singleton, post on the discussion tab of the Geni.org page for Thomas Mendenhall I, 1580-1637)
  2. The Mendenhall family has been thoroughly researched. Henry Beeson published his book, The Mendenhalls, in 1969. An older work by William Mendenhall et al, History, correspondence and pedigrees of the Mendenhalls…, published in 1912, has little on the English Mildenhalls. Gilbert Cope, the eminent Chester County genealogist, gathered materials on the family, some available at the Historical Society of Pennsylvania. The best source for new discoveries is the newsletter of the Mendenhall Family Association, online at mendenhall.org. The Association has published work by careful researchers who use original sources, including Peter Mendenhall, Dan McEver, Herbert Standing, and Ken Mendenhall. In particular, see the excellent summaries by Ken Mendenhall in issues 3(4) and again in 2010 in volume 17(3). These are the text of speeches given by Ken Mendenhall at Mendenhall family reunions, so they are lacking references.
  3. Ken Mendenhall, 2010.
  4. Through a combination of DNA testing and genealogical research, the Mildenhall line has been traced back to the 1200s. This research appears solid on the whole, but there are gaps in the evidence. See Peter Mendenhall, “Our Journey to Mildenhall”, Mendenhall Matters Newsletter, 22(2) and Allen Singleton, “Results of the Mendenhall YDNA group”, Mendenhall Matters Newsletter, 19(3).
  5. Ken Mendenhall, 2010.
  6. The name Marridge has nothing to do with marriage. The “ridge” part refers to the setting, the highest point in the parish of Ramsbury. (Ken Mendenhall, 2010)
  7. Herbert Standing, “The Mendenhall Family”, Mendenhall Matters Newsletter, 2000, 7(2)
  8. Standing, 2000.
  9. For more on Penn’s grant, see my blog at Takingthelongview.org, especially posts on August 20, 2015, also August 26, 2015 and September 2, 1015.
  10. The page for him on Geni.com, as Thomas Mendenhall, III, under the tab for Sources.
  11. Allen Singleton, “Who we left behind”, Mendenhall Matters Newsletter, 2015, 20(2).
  12. Standing, 2000.
  13. Joseph Besse, Sufferings of the People Called Quakers, vol. 2.
  14. Dates of birth from Standing, 2000.
  15. Ancestry, England and Wales Quaker Birth Marriage Death Register 1578-1837, Berkshire, Piece 1269, Reading and Warborough Monthly Meeting, image 17. This is also the source for the marriages of Joan to John Spier, and Moses to Elizabeth Bacon.
  16. Robert P. Case, Concord Township, vol. 1, 1983. This is an excellent township history, thorough and detailed, with family profiles, economic data, inventories and wills, house pictures and floor plans. It is a model for this kind of local history.
  17. Case, 1983. Before that Thomas had been an active member of Chester Meeting, signing testimony against selling rum to the Indians and serving as one of the trustees for the purchase of land for the meeting house in 6th month 1688.
  18. Children from the entry for Margery Mildenhall in the Mendenhall Family Association database.
  19. Piece 1269, Reading and Warborough Monthly Meeting, image 19.
  20. Allen Singleton, “Who we left behind”, Mendenhall Family Association Newsletter, 2015, 20(2). Israel signed the marriage certificate of Joan and John Spier in 5th month 1681 at Lambourne Woods Meeting, just after her husband Thomas. It was also signed by Joan’s father Thomas, mother Joan and their seven living children. (Piece 1269, Reading & Warborough Monthly Meeting, Image 19)
  21. In the database of Mendenhall Family Association as Thomas IV Mildenhall.
  22. Case, 1983. As Case put it, this marriage “cemented ties between two prominent families in early Chester County”. (p. 22)
  23. His profile in the Mendenhall Family Association database, where he is listed as John Mendenhall.
  24. Case, 1983, includes many references to Benjamin.
  25. Horle, Craig & Wokeck, Marianne, editors, Lawmaking and Legislators in PA, volume 1, 1682-1709, 1991.
  26. Thomas Chalkley’s Journal, p. 392, cited in Russell Newlin Abel, Mendenhall-Newlin Alliance, 1989, p. 110. The Journal was originally published around 1751 and has gone through many editions.
  27. The Mendenhall Family Association database has little material on this family. Gilbert Cope, in his notebook on the Mendenhall Family at Historical Society of Pennsylvania, includes a record from Reading and Warboro Monthly Meeting of a Stinn(?) Mindinal buried 10-8-1690. Surely the name is Stephen. Who is this?
  28. Notebooks of Gilbert Cope, Mendenhall Family, Historical Society of Pennsylvania, Call number Gen Co 9:56.
  29. Piece 1269, Reading & Warborough Monthly Meeting, Images 21-22.
  30. The Mendenhall Family Association database entry for her gives an exact birthdate of 25 May 1670, and a marriage date of April 1685. It is highly unlikely that she was married at 15. Her birth record has not been found in Piece 1269, Reading & Warborough Monthly Meeting, image 30 through 32, where some of her siblings are found.
  31. Case, 1983. The inventory and account are at Chester County Archives, 1729, #352. The will in 1732 is that of his son Nathaniel.

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